Aging: An Apprenticeship…book review

Aging: An Apprenticeship…book review

it’s not the last obscenity…

 

 

Book review:

Aging: An Apprenticeship

 

Nan Narboe, ed.

Portland, OR: Red Notebook Press, 2018

286 pages

 

Narboe creates a handy and wide-ranging collection of reflections on the art, science, and humanity of the aging process. More than 50 authors tell it like they think it is, for folks nearing the increasingly ordinary age of 50, and for folks in their 50s, 60s, 70s , 80s, and 90s and beyond. If you’re not in one of those groups, you will be sooner than you think.

Of course, the explicit premise of most of the authors in Aging: An Apprenticeship is that life can be good (or not), aging happens to everyone, and dying is the end game.

Gloria Steinem’s contribution is on point, completely tolerable, and instructive. She says:

“After all, we are communal creatures who must mirror each other to know who we are. Every living thing ages and dies, yet humans seem to be the only species that thinks about aging and thinks about dying. Surely, we are meant to use this ability, especially in a country that suffers so much from concealing aging and dying as if they were the last obscenities.”

For Aging: An Apprenticeship, Narboe collects essays that range from whimsical to doggone serious. Each author offers a very personal argument that aging and dying are 100% natural.

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the baby seats, step right up…my poem

the baby seats, step right up…my poem

the dusty baby seats…

 

 

Baby seats

 

I’m eating breakfast

   in a room

      half-filled with old folks,

they need four score of candles

   on the birthday cake,

they remember old, old songs,

sometimes all the words,

they’ve lost the dearest ones

   they married,

they blubber and laugh

   when the grandkids come,

and they slowly eat their breakfast

   with old friends,

and they never see

   the dusty baby seats

      that fill a tidy corner

         and wait for the generation

            that will happily use them.

 

September 19, 2024

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“the mossty boys all wore a hat”…my poem

“the mossty boys all wore a hat”…my poem

the boolies mimed…

 

 

ronday vue

 

It was time for a furling gat,

the mossty boys all wore a hat,

they rumbled when the clepsys chimed,

they crumbled when the boolies mimed,

and on their way they ratlinged fine

   and mortled as they kept in line.

 

The mook they made was loud and blam,

the dancing was appoint, and skram,

chandilling as they jamped each step,

so trilling as they klamped each rep,

their ronday lasted all the night,

at morning they were flamp and skite.

 

October 22, 2024

 

I’m learning from my friend Mike…

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Finis,” my thoughts (my poem)

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Taking another look at Longfellow’s poetry…

Taking another look at Longfellow’s poetry…

Say “repine” a couple times…

 

 

I read lots of poetry—colonial, classic American, modern—and I don’t find much that I like.

I’m a bit puzzled by this. I think hard about what I like and dislike about poetry, especially my own poetry. I confess my sincere failure to discern anything meaningful in the kind of poetry I classify as “obscure,” you know, the wayward romp through disconnected words and disjoint images, and the wanton disregard of verb tense/pronoun antecedents/subject and verb relationships/sentence structure—I think you may have seen this kind of stuff:

 

“Sky falls cloud sheep bray at starry islands in my hoping

 are them my lost love I step around the dog poo….”

 

I just rapped that out. It doesn’t make me proud.

I’m trying to get to the point:

I’ve read a bit of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882). Longfellow was a lyric poet who tried his hand at free verse, although much of his work is constrained to the often stultifying shackle of line after line and page after page of rhyme. Longfellow wrote at length. I confess I can’t make myself keep turning the pages to read “Evangeline” and “The Song of Hiawatha.” I do understand that this fashion of poetry was written and enjoyed before the successive advents of radio, TV, Sony Walkman, the internet, and social media. I guess reading a poem for an hour or so was more doable in the 19th century.

Longfellow does offer something to me in his more bite-size poetry. He was a capable wordsmith and he dreamed out images and insights and perspectives that appeal to me, and even nudge my sometime muse to wakefulness.

 

In “Snow-Flakes” he placidly described a snowfall:

“Out of the bosom of the Air,

  …The troubled sky reveals

 The grief it feels.

 This is the poem of the air…”

 

In “The Rainy Day” he said something we all know:

“…Be still, sad heart! and cease repining;

 Behind the clouds is the sun still shining;

 Thy fate is the common fate of all,

 Into each life some rain must fall,

 Some days must be dark and dreary.”

 

Thus, in Longfellow, something of poetry.

Admit it, we don’t use “repine” often enough in our casual conversations.

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Theodore Dreiser’s villain…

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“Speak like rain.” Isak Dinesen’s story

“Speak like rain.” Isak Dinesen’s story

poetry can be rain…

 

“One evening in the maize-field…to amuse myself,

I spoke to the field laborers, who were mostly quite young,

in Swaheli [sic] verse. There was no sense in the verse,

it was made for the sake of rhyme…

They were quick to understand that the meaning of poetry

   is of no consequence,

      and they did not question the thesis of the verse,

but waited eagerly for the rhyme, and laughed at it when it came….

As they had become used to the idea of poetry, they begged:

‘Speak again. Speak like rain.’ ”

 

quote from Out of Africa, pp. 285-286

 

Isak Dinesen (Karen Blixen) (1885-1962)

New York: The Modern Library, 1937, 1992

399 pages

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don’t cross the buck’s trail…my poem

don’t cross the buck’s trail…my poem

blinking, not blinking…

 

 

Owning the trail

 

The sun was high,

the patient rays

   striped the forest floor,

tree tops swayed enough

   to nudge the shadows,

a bird sang half a song

   way down the hill,

an angry squirrel

   sailed across the trail

      and stared at me,

he didn’t blink.

 

I walked the next turn,

and stared without blinking,

an eight-point buck

   looked back at me,

he stood still

   as his woman and kid

      rambled across the path

         and disappeared

            in the hydrangea,

he didn’t budge,

he seemed to be daring me

   to make a move.

 

He showed no fear,

he owned the trail,

I was the stranger with two legs,

I looked at him for moments,

I faced him moments more

   as I shuffled back

      around the turn,

and shambled from his world.

 

The sun was high,

the shadows trembled,

I walked away through empty woods.

 

February 6, 2025

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