“stop seeking the impossible…”…The Daily Stoic

“stop seeking the impossible…”…The Daily Stoic

forget the small potatoes…

 

 

“…stop seeking the impossible,

     the short-sighted,

          and the unnecessary.”

 

from The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman

New York: Portfolio/Penguin, 2016

p. 101

 

Of course, I realize that each person has a personal definition of “the impossible, the short-sighted, and the unnecessary.”

The point is:

Forget about what you can’t change, and forget about the small potato stuff.

Commit to doing a good thing.

Commit to resisting the bad stuff that touches you in ways you can avoid.

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Book review: Ethan Frome

not being satisfied with less…

by Edith Wharton

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Hand me that hammer…my poem

Hand me that hammer…my poem

Too many gulfs…

 

 

Hand me that hammer

 

This lightening sky pulls my eye

   upward from newly darkening earth.

Our troubled plain

   has no points of light just now.

We face fears, terrors, hates, imprecations,

   repudiations, exclusions…

Too many gulfs appearing,

   too few bridges imagined

     in the grim thoughts of too many.

 

I will build one bridge today,

   I welcome this lightening sky

      to ease my work.

 

November 9, 2016

I work on building a bridge every day.

I try to do a good thing every day.

That’s good for me and for America.

It helps to keep me sane.

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Book review: All The President’s Men

The men and women

    who crave power…

by Carl Bernstein and Bob Woodward

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As with another eye: Poems of exactitude with 55 free verse and haiku poems,
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treadmill thoughts…“and old sneakers,” my poem

treadmill thoughts…“and old sneakers,” my poem

again is anew…

 

 

…and old sneakers

 

We move, we huff,

we quiver, we chant,

thoughts galore will tumble

   as the hot routine deepens,

 

the workout is good,

no doubt,

we mime the young

   as we get old,

we walk the track,

the countless reps,

the 1-2-3, the look-and-see,

the bobbled step,

the front and back,

the in-and-out…

 

This cheerless time,

this silent gym,

this jumbled gear,

the shadowed clock…

look the same as yesterday,

but…

 

I conjure me,

a brand new thought,

a slower step,

I see a different future,

the silence is a private tune,

 

I whisper behind my eyes

   that more is more,

again is anew,

the moving is progress,

it is long moments in my life.

 

November 24, 2024

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Movie review: Same Time, Next Year

all-American adultery, oh yeah…

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Writing Rainbows: Poems for Grown-Ups with 59 free verse and haiku poems,
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no kicking or biting…says Seneca

no kicking or biting…says Seneca

don’t bite back…

 

 

“How much better it is to take the opposite course

   and not to match fault with fault.

     Would any one think that he was well balanced

        if he repaid a mule with kicks

          and a dog with biting?”

 

Seneca (4 BC-65 CE), On Anger (De Ira), 3.27.2

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Book review: Seven Gothic Tales

by Isak Dinesen,

lush and memorable stories…

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In other words: Poems for your eyes and ears with 64 free verse and haiku poems,
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Range: Why Generalists Triumph…book review

Range: Why Generalists Triumph…book review

Prepare for the future, don’t try to plan it…

 

Book review:

Range:

Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World

 

by David Epstein (b1983)

New York: Riverhead Books, 2019

355 pages

 

We don’t know the future.

We can prepare for it to happen by sampling life and all it has to offer.

 

We don’t have to choose a career track

or a life path all at once when we’re young.

 

Most successful, satisfied people change jobs and change goals during their lives.

 

“Compare yourself to yourself yesterday, not to younger people who aren’t you.” (p. 290)

 

Don’t “decide what you should be before first figuring out who you are.” (p. 289)

 

Michelangelo “left three-fifths of his sculptures unfinished.” (p. 164)

 

“Instead of working back from a goal, work forward from promising situations.”

Quote from Paul Graham, cited on p. 163

 

You don’t have to start out committed to one specialized goal or career or life path.

It’s OK to experiment with life, and to keep switching to another thing that interests you more.

It’s OK to take advantage of a lucky break, and make a move in a different direction.

Epstein says it more convincingly, in more detail, with plenty of facts to back up his argument in Range.

p.s. Epstein didn’t start out planning to be a shrewd observer of human nature, but he got there.

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“Fishering,” by Brian Doyle

…what meets the eye…

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friends can touch…my poem

friends can touch…my poem

our little space…

 

 

touch

 

…some easy talk is all we need,

brief moments are the time,

 

quick smiles come and go,

and linger

   and last,

 

familiar words we share,

we cross our paths,

we laugh in our little space,

 

our fingers touch,

and touch,

we’re friends, we know that much.

 

September 23, 2024

Published in March-April 2025 issue of Creative Inspirations

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Remember the Tallahatchie Bridge?

Molly Johnson sings it right…

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My first name was rain: A dreamery of poems with 53 free verse and haiku poems,
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