“stop seeking the impossible…”…The Daily Stoic

“stop seeking the impossible…”…The Daily Stoic

forget the small potatoes…

 

 

“…stop seeking the impossible,

     the short-sighted,

          and the unnecessary.”

 

from The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman

New York: Portfolio/Penguin, 2016

p. 101

 

Of course, I realize that each person has a personal definition of “the impossible, the short-sighted, and the unnecessary.”

The point is:

Forget about what you can’t change, and forget about the small potato stuff.

Commit to doing a good thing.

Commit to resisting the bad stuff that touches you in ways you can avoid.

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Copyright © Richard Carl Subber 2025 All rights reserved.

 

Book review: Ethan Frome

not being satisfied with less…

by Edith Wharton

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Seeing far: Selected poems with 47 free verse and haiku poems,
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Hand me that hammer…my poem

Hand me that hammer…my poem

Too many gulfs…

 

 

Hand me that hammer

 

This lightening sky pulls my eye

   upward from newly darkening earth.

Our troubled plain

   has no points of light just now.

We face fears, terrors, hates, imprecations,

   repudiations, exclusions…

Too many gulfs appearing,

   too few bridges imagined

     in the grim thoughts of too many.

 

I will build one bridge today,

   I welcome this lightening sky

      to ease my work.

 

November 9, 2016

I work on building a bridge every day.

I try to do a good thing every day.

That’s good for me and for America.

It helps to keep me sane.

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Book review: All The President’s Men

The men and women

    who crave power…

by Carl Bernstein and Bob Woodward

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As with another eye: Poems of exactitude with 55 free verse and haiku poems,
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treadmill thoughts…“and old sneakers,” my poem

treadmill thoughts…“and old sneakers,” my poem

again is anew…

 

 

…and old sneakers

 

We move, we huff,

we quiver, we chant,

thoughts galore will tumble

   as the hot routine deepens,

 

the workout is good,

no doubt,

we mime the young

   as we get old,

we walk the track,

the countless reps,

the 1-2-3, the look-and-see,

the bobbled step,

the front and back,

the in-and-out…

 

This cheerless time,

this silent gym,

this jumbled gear,

the shadowed clock…

look the same as yesterday,

but…

 

I conjure me,

a brand new thought,

a slower step,

I see a different future,

the silence is a private tune,

 

I whisper behind my eyes

   that more is more,

again is anew,

the moving is progress,

it is long moments in my life.

 

November 24, 2024

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Movie review: Same Time, Next Year

all-American adultery, oh yeah…

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Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics…book review

Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics…book review

it’s not “extra”…

 

 

Book review:

Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics

 

by Dan Harris and Jeff Warren, with Carlye Adler

New York: Spiegel & Grau, 2017

286 pages

 

I tried meditation once, about 20 years ago or so, and, I confess, I didn’t stick with it.

It seemed like an “extra” thing to do, and I think I felt like I was busy enough.

Harris makes a believable case for giving it a try.

He has good news, in part: you don’t have to sit cross-legged with your knees painfully lowered, you don’t have to pick any kind of “mantra,” and you can start off with 5 or 10 minutes a day—and he repeatedly says “one minute of meditation absolutely counts.”

I’m retired, and now I know I have the time to meditate if I feel like it.

I can count my breaths, so I can get started.

I’ve tried it a couple times already, and, I confess, I think there is a welcome stillness connected to the whole thing.

I think there may be a new way to be me.

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Book review. Copyright © Richard Carl Subber 2025 All rights reserved.

 

Book review: Address Unknown

A friendship corrupted by Nazi hatred in WWII

by Kathrine Kressmann Taylor

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no kicking or biting…says Seneca

no kicking or biting…says Seneca

don’t bite back…

 

 

“How much better it is to take the opposite course

   and not to match fault with fault.

     Would any one think that he was well balanced

        if he repaid a mule with kicks

          and a dog with biting?”

 

Seneca (4 BC-65 CE), On Anger (De Ira), 3.27.2

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Book review: Seven Gothic Tales

by Isak Dinesen,

lush and memorable stories…

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In other words: Poems for your eyes and ears with 64 free verse and haiku poems,
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The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie…movie review

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie…movie review

Cue the “Brodie girls”…

 

 

Movie review:

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie

 

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969, rated PG, 116 minutes) is all Maggie Smith, all the time.

There is a story line: deeply committed and outspoken teacher pushes young girls to maturity while she dabbles in love and grasps everywhere for approval.

Miss Jean Brodie (Smith) creates a mostly adoring set of “Brodie girls” as she flourishes and flaunts and flounders at the Marcia Blaine School for Girls in 1930s Edinburgh.

She leaves a trail of broken hearts and endures the ultimate humiliation of losing her job after she is “betrayed” by a student who almost grows up in the process.

Good acting, good story, good entertainment.

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Movie review. Copyright © Richard Carl Subber 2025 All rights reserved.

 

Book review: Cleopatra: A Life

…don’t even think

about Gordon Gekko…

by Stacy Schiff

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